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Thursday, July 28, 2011

The truth. Why can it be so emotionally mixed up?

Finding out the truth is so exciting, but it can be very anxious, nerve-wrecking, mortifying, and hurtful. But why is it that we push people's buttons and ask them majority of the time for the truth? Most of the time, the answer is to be in a healthy faithful relationship. But I'm not talking about just romance and relationships. I'm talking about in general! Let's say, You wanted to ask a close friend or sibling if they're still a virgin. (Haha) It's our curiosity! You want to know, but if they have the answer you were expecting, why does it feel so great to know you were right? Maybe, just maybe.. it might be that us humans enjoy being wise. That thrill of acknowledging you're right, or you've found out something nobody else knows. It's the possibility of knowing a secret that not a lot ofpeople know.  .It's something I always ponder. Perhaps, it's just relieving the curiosity that once reached it's limit. But why else? Why do we crave for the truth? Humans.. humans lie at one point, We can't help ourselves but protect someone's feelings or protect our self..

The conclusion of this thought is, There are people who do not tell anything about their private life. Some people are not as open and free with their secrets, but secrets are bound to find out eventually. However, when when someone with those characteristics tells their friend something they assumed about, it's shocking. It's a huge relief! But why? Knowing that the person was right, what benefit did they get? The only one they received was knowing the person a little more. That's probably the only answer...