Impressions. "Dress to impress." Is what most fashionistas say, right? It's actually.. true. I completely agree. If you see.. well, I don't know.. let's say a man. A man who is wearing a super tight V-neck, Skinny jeans and whatever shoes they are wearing. Your first thought is.." Is this man .. Gay?" You don't know yet, though. From your intelligence, You probably think all Homosexuals look feminine. But that's just a stereotype. You don't have to look like your sexuality.. Wait, Is there even a specific uniform for particular orientations? No, there isn't. You wear what you want, You wear what you love, And that's just how the world is so rare and colorful. In some areas, You can actually pull off "Lolita" type clothing, Gothic dresses, Wearing boots with a dress.. I mean, You can wear whatever you want but people be staring at you like you're some lunatic. However.. Doesn't mean you gotta stop for being who you are. Wear what you feel, eh?
but why is it that we always stare at someone who is wearing something we think isn't normal? There really isn't a correct answer for that but I personally think it's what the person is wearing. We don't usually see a big, fluffy dress a lot on our streets, which is actually filled with slimmer outfits. I would possibly call that "Attention outfitters. " Because it's true, It catches our eye and we think it's either "Amazingly unusual. " or "Horrifyingly unattractive." But that's just our opinion. It doesn't matter what we think. Opinions are just from our point of view. so what? Just stop staring at the person like they have no right wearing something that they love. Look and move on, Is what I say. You say you don't like to judge, But you do anyways. Impressions are a big deal in this society and Good or bad, You get them either way. It's not something you avoid, because it's coming from our brains and you are expected to think something at least. It's perfectly normal, Though don't say something cruel to the person's face when they aren't asking for it. Whether you are a rude person or not, You don't say your opinions so bluntly. Care about their feelings at least, You know? You would probably feel very upset or uncomfortable when you bought this awesome outfit, and next thing you know.. You get an Thumbs down. IT really brings us down, So don't think we're robots who don't feel anything at all. Once we get upsetting feedback, We think it's wrong terrifying for more peers to see. But it isn't, It's only their opinion. Don't let them bring you down. Who are they to tell you what's wrong or right?
Judgemental people. It's okay to take a glance at someone who doesn't look "normal" to you. But don't just randomly go up to them and say.."Your butt looks unusual." LEt me tell you what's wrong with that.
A: They'll probably smack you across the face.
B: They'll call you a Pervert.
C: You're too cruel about opinions. You're not going to be on American Idol or some other show that has Judging on it.
And most of all..
D: They are going to feel bad about themselves. That's the LAST thing you want them to feel. Who knows.. They'll probably be anorexic the next day.. Which ain't healthy. >_>;
MY point is that.. Judging is an instinct. It just happens in our minds, We can't avoid it. The only reasonable judgement is by knowing the person and you just don't like the way they act. Otherwise, Don't be so blunt with your point of view. No one should care about a stranger's opinion. Even if it isn't a stranger, You should never take THEIR opinion so seriously. It's like.. putting you down JUST because they think your overweight/not over weight. The hell? They have no life if they're doing that.. So.. The quote of this Post is..
"Look and move on."
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