The truth. Why can it be so emotionally mixed up?

Finding out the truth is so exciting, but it can be very anxious, nerve-wrecking, mortifying, and hurtful. But why is it that we push people's buttons and ask them majority of the time for the truth? Most of the time, the answer is to be in a healthy faithful relationship. But I'm not talking about just romance and relationships. I'm talking about in general! Let's say, You wanted to ask a close friend or sibling if they're still a virgin. (Haha) It's our curiosity! You want to know, but if they have the answer you were expecting, why does it feel so great to know you were right? Maybe, just maybe.. it might be that us humans enjoy being wise. That thrill of acknowledging you're right, or you've found out something nobody else knows. It's the possibility of knowing a secret that not a lot ofpeople know.  .It's something I always ponder. Perhaps, it's just relieving the curiosity that once reached it's limit. But why else? Why do we crave for the truth? Humans.. humans lie at one point, We can't help ourselves but protect someone's feelings or protect our self..

The conclusion of this thought is, There are people who do not tell anything about their private life. Some people are not as open and free with their secrets, but secrets are bound to find out eventually. However, when when someone with those characteristics tells their friend something they assumed about, it's shocking. It's a huge relief! But why? Knowing that the person was right, what benefit did they get? The only one they received was knowing the person a little more. That's probably the only answer...

Worrying about the future? You? ALWAYS. (Serious matter.)

Yeah, Odd picture. xD But umm.. I'm always thinking about the future when I'm older. Maybe in my late 30's.. 20's.. It's mainly because there are so many bad influences around us. Like for example, Getting pregnant at an early age. It happens but in reality, it shouldn't...

Our minds is what controls leading to the decisions we make ourselves  and honestly speaking? I'm anxious to see how I'll be like. Aren't you?

It's understandable if you aren't, But I'm just saying.. There's rapists who were once decant people (maybe) and child predators (Which I'm worried about becoming).. and and.. PREGNANT MEN. (If that's possible.)

I keep thinking about the most strangest things, though. Once I started to get really emotional, thinking I'll be a druggie in Highschool. It's.. a scary place, so it seems. And lately, I panicked because I kept thinking I'll be a child predator or rapist. IT's a scary thought to be honest. HOWEVER, i do think that there are some moments when you just ponder what you want to be. I want to be a Psychologist or at least a drummer in a rock band. Though if I'm a terrible person who does terrifying things, How can I fulfill those dreams?

I'm not trying to scare anybody, But I'm starting to age and it's my time to think about these things. I don't have the characteristics to be a bad person, But you never know how the future will end up. If only there were true and honest fortune tellers. While I kept thinking about those thoughts, I paused and remembered that I always over react to everything.: I worry too much!
It's actually a habit. But honestly? I'm pretty sure I'm being reasonable at the moment. There are teens who are pregnant, And I'd literally commit suicide if I ever did something that's too beyond. I came from a Family that has no trace of disgusting matters and I haven't been treated harshly at all. (Except for some fights, but that is Family.) How can I stop worrying about the future?

Even though it's normal, It's killing me inside. The one thing that I despise about myself is worrying too much. It's annoying and I can't stop thinking about it. I'm more sad when I'm around friends.

And they're speechless. They've got no advice for me.  ..

I know there are some people who are reading this, Anxious about their future.
But let me tell you this and I need to take my own advice like I always do anyhow. ::

Stop worrying about the future, It's the present that we need to worry about. Worrying about the beyond might end up either one of us hurt.. or full of mistakes. It's basically.. a trap. There's nothing wrong wondering about the future, But being overwhelmed about it leads us to being indecisive and too focused on what we're going to be, how we're going to be. Causing the future to end badly. 

So my quote of this post is "Don't be overwhelmed. Focus on what's going on right now and create the future you want and not rush things."

What a girl needs in her Bag/Purse?

Every girl deserves to carry around a purse or a small bag. If you girls don't at least have one bag/purse, Get one. And the best first-buyers would have to be shopping at Macy's. Their collections of bags should have some that are affordable but perfect for you. Okay, so.. I've been wondering. What does every feminine girl need to have in her bags? I've thought of some not-too-heavy products for everyday uses, And materials for young women who don't like makeup.. coming from a tweens' perspective.. And trust me, It will come handy. There are some women who don't like girly things or too much weight. That's why these 5 things are just brief and simple. No makeup and no extra weight.

1. Always.. Always.. Always carry a few hairbands. Nothing too tacky, But if that's what you like.

2. Lip Balm. I love the EOS Lip balm because it's just a simple ball but it's scents are just delicious. I have the summer fruit and as it says on the label, It's organic! ;D And this is not makeup or lipstick. This just helps your lips refreshed and pucker up for a kiss.

3. Pens. Okay, yeah.. It's a little unreasonable. But you never know what a pen can do..It's handy for drawing if you're bored waiting.. Just you know, draw on your hand or somethin'.. OR. You could always pull out the pen and stab a rapist.. ^_^;

4.Mints. Some people don't like chewing Minty gum flavors (Like me) and chew fruity stuff so why not just carry around chewable peppermints? They shouldn't be much. Probably around..1 or 2 dollars. If you ate a Tuna Sandwich (and we know how bad that smells but it's reeeaally deliciouss.) and you're walking around casually.. Until someone stops to say something and you're like, "Heeeeeeeeey. *Breathes through your mouth* Hooooow you doooooin'?~" The person in front of you is going to drop dead.Nobody wants to smell your stinky breathe~!

5. Last but not least, A hair brush and a mirror. Sometimes when you're too busy to notice that the wind decided to make it "Bad hair day." it's good to flip out your mirror and see what's goin' on over above your head. Small brushes shouldn't cost much either. They're reliable because you don't have to bring your big fat paddle brush. It really depends on the hair type you have so choose wisely when it comes to brushes.

So yeah. OH. And if you're an adult or you're a youngster who has a wallet.. don't be a bozo and forget it. okay? xD

How to: Be cheesy/ A man. (Comedy. It's common sense. ;D)

Guys are so uneducated these days, They always say something wrong or something that's the truth except they phrased it badly. Here are some tips for you, Guys.

1. Buy her a lovely, fancy dinner. With candle lights, Nobody is around you.. Plan it during night time, It's much more "romanticc."  Tell her it costs about 100 dollars, And keep it to yourself that you actually spent less than 50.

2. Give the girl food if she's really self-conscious about her weight and say "Eating helps relieve stress."

3. Talk about yourself all the time, Every time every where. Even when you're at the movie theaters. Girls are too shy to talk so talking about yourself will bring some opinions from them.. Insulting or not. ;D

4. Complimentss. Women loves compliments when it's coming from their man's perspective. If the skinny jeans look fat, Then say it. :D
  And if they look terrible in their makeup, Say "You're as beautiful as the Sunshine.." It really helps them feel better. Take away their mirror, Just in case. :D

5. Flowers~! Even if it is corny, It's actually pretty sweet of a man. The flowers should be roses, And describe your love to them comparing it to the rose. Such as "Your love is delicate as this stem." Give her flowers every weekend, Everyday, It'll be Rosy Days!

6. Pickup lines. Haven't gotten a girl? Saying these lines will help in the 21st century The way it did in 1970! :D
"What's a beautiful girl doing at a bachelorette party? It shows you've been obviously single for a long time no?"

"So.. uh, Do you come here often?"

"*stares..*  Wow.. :D "

"You must be Mickey because you're so fine, you so funny. ~ "

7. Lying. this should help the girl want to stay with you. :D

"I have a disease and I only have one more month to live.."

This should all help you~ :DD Chances are that you won't get a girl..~

------------------------ Some useful tips about this post.. Sorry if you can't read it. xD Comment if it bothers you.

Giving your lovely partner flowers ( But not all the time, just occasionally. ) satisfies them, Choose what flowers represents your mate.  Also adding a small gift that isn't too expensive for just a random day helps. If you only give them flowers and jewelry once a year will be questioned, And if you are just say something that isn't too corny. Like.." I don't favor you with gifts everyday, Love." And casually give her a peck on the cheek and walk all cool-like.Giving them flowers will get tiring and boring. Using the same techniques will fade.

I'm not saying you have to have to, And when it comes to my advice I always try and boss around. So apologies and do things that float your boat. It'll match your personality; The way you do things. Don't let anybody tell you what to do in your personal relationship, These are just false tips except the Flowers part. :D

When you're clueless in relationships, The best way is to be yourself. Ifyou do things that is wrong, Then learn from your mistake and enhance or improve yourself.  Throughout your Romance life, You'll learn some flaws about you and your mate. And improvising you and your love life is the best way to go, and not make the same mistake.

Don't question Love. <3

P.S The 7 tips I previously said are not true, They only worked possibly around 1970.. maybe not even. I wouldn't know, But these lines seem really old-fashioned. If you're the corny type, Then go ahead try those tips . :D And girls.. Girls aren't that shy to speak. So don't think girls are always shy, that's just a stereotype. 




I got a few lines here. Not all of them but..Funny lines, bro.

Cosmetics! - In Debt? Hope not.

OHHH. I LOVE.. LOVE SHOPPING. Dude, When I explained to my dad I just want Cards for my teachers and a bathing suit for a party, I totally wandered off into the makeup isle. WHICH.. I shouldn't have done. So, for all my stuff it was about .. hm.. 20 bucks or more. It pissed y dad off a lot so I made  a deal with him I'll return the bathing suit and cards except for one, And keep my cosmetics. Because the bikini costs 20 dollars, I thought it wasn't fair PLUS I felt really bad for wasting all his money, Normally I would shrug my shoulders and wouldn't care, but due to the economy I just.. felt like crap, you know. I made him satisfied by returning the items I stated previously. So here's what I got, this time. I'll show you all the makeup I use in all.

ALL my makeup.

What I bought that costs over 20 bucks

E.L.F Cosmetics are FANTASTIC. Their eye shadows are just.. so pigmented! Meaning, they're deeply colored. I would recommend buying their small palettes that are only 1$ I'm talking about the palettes that have 4 eyeshadows. I have it displayed in the picture above this, It's on the left side of the Blue eyeshadow. It's in the picture with the caption "What I bought that costs over 20 bucks." I would suggest this brand for young makeup artists, or to people who want to be an makeup artist. It's cheap, affordable and most of their products are pigmented. And yes, I'm actually advertising an Makeup brand.

Their brushes are even better. The studio (they're black) brushes are only 3 dollars. These brushes are very soft and elegant. And if you can't afford  them, Try the 1$ brushes. I'm not sure of the difference, But I suggest purchasing the black ones. <3 You can shop for E.L.F at Target, in the beauty and health isle. :D

Here's their site : Click here.

Lesson Five: Rejection & Over dramatic Relevance?

When it comes to Love, There's always ups and downs and when in middle school most relationships don't expect that and can say "I love you." easily. Girls check out boys even if they are in a relationship, Where I live. Which is Earth. ^^ And the peering leads to gossip plus rumors. This.. effecting their relationship with their partner and.. well, The break up is simple for the guys or maybe the girls. They can do cruel things too, You know. 

Text message break ups are honestly ridiculous. What? You're not manly/womanly enough to tell someone you wanna break up with them? For god sakes The parents will see your text message! D: If you haven't told you parents about your lil' boy/girl.. Well, you gonna be in big doodoo. The worst breakup? Not even. The worst is.. Uhh.. Here. And this a face to face conversation.


"Hey, Susy." 
"Hey, Bob! :D I missed you soooooooo much."
"Yeah, I can see. "

*Silence.* .... ...  ... 

"So.. Why did you want me to meet at the dumpster? It reeks. " 

"It's the dumpster. You shouldn't expect lavender and roses next time you come, Okay?"

"Okaaaay. So tell me!"

"So.. You know the word Dumpster right?"
 
"I just said it."

"Uhh, right. Well. The first few letters "Dump." 

"--- Hold up, Boy *Holds hand up*."..

"*Shakes* W-What?"

"You're not gonna throw all your condoms (Another word is Protection.) away right? D:"

"Uh, no. I'm keeping 'them'. Can I continue?"
 
"Right..right. Sorry."

"So..It reeks, right--"

"Right. :D"

"An.. the word dump means to just throw away.. And.. I uhh.. wanted to do the same to you."

"O.o.. WHAT THE FUDGE!? YOU. .. *Beats the boy with a random fish."
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Okay, it's not the best. But it's almost like that in Middle school..Except... The guys/girls don't bring their "Ex"  to the dump, But it'd be hysterical! And the worst part is. .The girls get over emotional. 

They go on Facebook or some kind of networking site and post "Single." And their friends pity them. The last thing a girl wants after a break up is sympathy and pity. unless you want that kinda attention. Then the girls cry..cry...cry..and.. guess what? Cry even more~!

I sound a little rude, But I think over-dramatic people who got rejected slightly bothersome. If you truly like the guy, Then I'll understand and I'd give you better advice like.." It's alright, Not many guys are as bad as him. There's only a handful left and you need to catch them before they're caught before you." But if you're crying over a 2 week relationship, Less than a month, Less than 3 months.. I'm gonna walk away. Jus..no, Girl. I don't care if you reeeaally got attached to him, Just don't tell me. I've got no interest of a relationship that was short and simple; Love ain't like that in real society. Love is like what you're experiencing in Middle school, Clingy and sometimes cheesy.

I  get it, Honey. Rejections are heartbreaking, especially your first one. But the world isn't going to end! Geeze, It's a man. Not jesus. A man who is a low-life and will be shunned by every girl if you spread the word that you got dumped by him, and shedding fake tears. :3  No I'm joking, Don't do that. Buuut. It's your life.. Your choices.. xD

Excuse you!

 (( LOOL. I hope you know what "Them" means.))
You're sitting at the dinner table inside a fancy restaurant with scrumptious food, You're devouring the taste having a mini orgasm (hehe) and you almost stuff another forkful of your food until you heard. Errruup. A burp. That... yeah. That's nice, bro. -Puts fork down- You.. you just ruined my appetite. Thanks. I love you too.

  Have some manners! It's gross. I don't want your nasty-butt gas spreading through the used-to-be-heavenly smelly  atmosphere~ D; If you wanna burp, Burp at least in yo mouth. It's so impolite, too. There really isn't a reason but it's gross. Your chicken breath just exhales out into the person in front of you. That...sounds fun, doesn't it? No.. not really, Girl.



 I mean, Imagine you being the person blown away. If you wanna burp out loud, Excuse yourself. Ain't your momma gonna kick your shin and make you do it. But she should because it's really impolite.

In society, Having disgusting manners affects your surroundings and not only your peers too. IT also depends on the people you live with, It's okay if you're fooling around with your friends..( I was about to type homies.. ? ) But uhm, When you're at a refined dinner with lots of peers around you you're expected to carry your manners too. It's expected otherwise, People be thinking.."Woah.. What kinda parents does that child have?" Some people don't really care about what others think, And I do but rarely I don't. Would it kill you to say a few simple words? Who cares if you're joking around with your homies or whatever.. But at a restaurant? No.. no.. just.. no. Gross. Don't even think about spreading your flattery gas from your behind. >.>..

"Please and thank you." "Excuse me---" Girl, saaying twwwooooo simple words won't kill your throat will it? No it won't so stop trying to look like a badass because it makes you look like a bozo. I'm just saying. IT honestly ruins everyone's mood so care about your peers' feelings too. You probably will be kicked or forced to pay the bill for your dinner or clean up the dishes..some kinda punishment. O.o

My point is, Everyone likes to burp randomly and uhh.. fart randomly just for the hell of it and be "Free" but in public places, You need to control whatever you need to control. >.>